Jesus answered: "Don't you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? What her story does reveal, however, is a woman of true beauty after God’s own heart. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God. No amount of theorizing can change the fact that God created a male and a female, equally in His image, equal in personhood, yet different in function. There a woman named Martha opened her home to him. Come to your Father and tell him, "Father, I don't feel comfortable with the idea of you as my father, because of the way I feel about my earthly father. down Your dusty feet – stir You to weep, too. This Mary was the sister of Lazarus and Martha who all resided in the small town of Bethany. These women could travel safely with Him. Jesus wept. And she appears to be single. He defended her devotion when others rebuked her. Jesus was talking, and among those listening was Mary. Jesus, therefore, six days before the Passover, came to Bethany where Lazarus was, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. “Why are you bothering this woman? [2] Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. 2 A dinner was given at Bethany to honor Jesus. But there was something different that day. Jesus calls that obedience to the command to honor your parents. Mary never thought her act of love would be remembered, but it was by the one whom she performed it for and because of that, we now know how she sought the approval of Jesus. Matthew: Gives location, does not provide Mary’s name but highlights her _____ and action. Mary of Bethany teaches us to have a scandalous love for Jesus that the rest of world might think is totally inappropriate! It tells of two sisters whom Jesus visits. There are no clones in God's family. The number of women in the New Testament who are named Mary creates a good deal of confusion over which is which. Since sin in human beings has distorted the earthly example of fatherhood, God went to a lot of trouble to show us what kind of Father he is. When Martha, irritated that she was left to do the work by herself asked the Lord to get Mary into the kitchen, his answer is interesting. We influence our husbands, children, friends, co-workers and our community. and come with all that I have. Three little words that are important because they can give us a solid foundation upon which to build our lives. Can you think of times when God didn't answer your prayers in the way and at the time you wanted? She had chosen to learn from Jesus, to listen to his words, to open her heart and mind to Him. He was a threat to their position and authority, and Jerusalem became increasingly hostile territory for Jesus. But think of what they would all have missed if Jesus had just done what they wanted--heal Lazarus. He sympathizes with us in our pain. How like Martha most of us are! Her fame is widespread, even though relatively little is known about her life. when my strength falters – I shall wrap my quivering arms. She, of all people, had reason to believe his promise that he would rise from the dead. I long to anoint Your precious feet. Over and over, Jesus had told his disciples that he would be killed in Jerusalem and then rise again. And Jesus loved Mary--thoughtful, sensitive Mary, who listened carefully to his words and believed what he said. He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. We see Mary three different times in the Bible, beginning with the incident in the home of her sister, Martha (Luke 10:38-42), where Jesus, and presumably the disciples who travelled with Him, were being entertained. He is always present with us and accessible to us. This first one is inspired by Mary of Bethany when she poured a pint of spikenard over Jesus’s head. It’s our job to befriend and be godly role models and mentors for the women coming after us. But did you notice what else Jesus said? She sat at his feet. mary of bethany - YouTube. for I, too, yearn to soothe. She unbound her hair and wiped his feet with it, even though a respectable woman did not let down her hair in public. It's interesting to note that she was not one of the women who stayed at the cross or went to the tomb. Mary of Bethany is a model of undistracted devotion to God. She had chosen the better thing. But I just want us to focus our attention on Mary in the midst of the activity that went on. But women have also made an enormous impact on every other sphere of life--business, education, missions, politics, and philanthropy. She believed his words about his coming death and resurrection. Yet we are not always appreciated as we would like to be. No one seems to have remembered that Jesus could heal people from a distance, as he did the son of a synagogue leader. We work hard to serve the Lord, and what we do is necessary. And Jesus accepted them and appreciated them just as they were. After all, hadn't she seen Lazarus brought back from death? After All, God Greatly Blessed Him, And Made Him The Father Of The Nation Israel. The friendship that Jesus had with Mary should enrich our understanding and encourage us in the security of our heavenly Father's love. Heb. Instead of rejoicing, this just solidified their intent to get rid of Jesus. How does one defend himself or herself in that situation? This was a diverse group of women, from different levels of society. So the message was brought to Jesus. Mary was the one who was spiritually in tune with Jesus. Our Father wants our company more than He wants our busy-ness, even for Him. He waited two more days. He told them that the fragrance of this perfume would linger on his body while he hung on the cross and when he was buried in the tomb. “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father”! Mary is near Jesus. Mary of Bethany is the sister of Martha and Lazarus of Bethany. I believe that what the feminists say is true to a point. Can't you see them frowning in disapproval as they rebuked her publicly? There was nothing she owned that she would not spend on him. Her gratitude for her brother's life, her faith that Jesus was the Messiah, and her love for Him personally motivated this sacrificial act to express her utter devotion. He applauded her choice to learn from Him. From now on, you do know him and have seen him. He sent someone that people could see, touch, and hear. And our experiences with our earthly fathers greatly influence our concept of God, our heavenly Father. It was an expensive perfume. Jesus love Lazarus, Mary and Martha, but he didn't rush to Lazarus' side. But if your father was harsh, hard to please, distant, cold, abusive, or absent, it’s hard to believe God is loving, caring and ever-present. And then the buzzing started. Provision for the poor was built into the Mosaic Law. Faith just keeps on believing that God is in control and will make all things work together for our good. There was no separate Feast Day in honor of Mary of Bethany until 1969 when the festival liturgy was revised and now Mary of Bethany is celebrated together with her sister Martha and brother Lazarus on July 29, reflecting the fact that the current interpretation of the Catholic Church is that these are two different women. We first meet her in that familiar domestic situation which has become proverbial. Bible verses related to Mary Of Bethany from the King James Version (KJV) by Relevance - Sort By Book Order Luke 10:38-42 - Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house. A lone young woman in a room full of men approaches Jesus with a box. We are creative, relational, and nurturing. Some of you are caring for aged parents. Join the Bold Prayers of Jesus Challenge! This box held enough money for her to live comfortably into retirement, and a dowry which would allow her to marry into a wealthy family. How to Obtain Help from Jesus (Matthew 15:21-28). It is six days before the Passover Feast. It was worth a year's wages." One of the reasons is that people often go back to church history to see what decisions the church fathers made over the years. Would you be able to accept your situation now if you knew just how God would be glorified as a result? (John 11:1-2) Martha, Mary and their brother Lazarus lived together in Bethany, a village less than 2 miles from Jerusalem. Mary loved Jesus with a scandalous love and Jesus … Lazarus was among the people at the table with Jesus. Rev'd Ali reads her reflective poem about Mary of Bethany. He really cares for you. We each have different ways of expressing love and devotion to our families, friends, and to God. But that's OK, because the Bible says that raising children is a good deed! Martha … It was enough for her that Jesus knew that she did what she could for Him. It's interesting to note that she was not one of the women who stayed at the cross or went to the tomb. Mary took a … Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. What does Jesus reveal to us about our heavenly Father and his understanding of us as women? His was not a loud wailing, but gut-wrenching sobs as tears streamed down his face. Some were married women, and some were single. Mary worshiping at Jesus’ feet; Matthew 26:6-13; Mark 14:3-9; John 12:1-8 In this last scene and example of Mary of Bethany we have three different perspectives all highlighting the same truth. What is God like? Lazarus was critically ill and nothing was helping him. Lazarus reclined at the table with the other guests. Have you ever wept with your child when he or she has been hurting? These jars had long necks. Related Topics: Character Study, Curriculum, Women's Articles, Mrs. Vickie Kraft, a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary, served as Minister to Women at Northwest Bible Church in Dallas for over 13 years. Jesus broke with the traditions of his culture in the way he treated women. Women can have it all. Although the name Mary was common, one “Mary” in particular was certainly not, and that prime example was Mary of Bethany. This was the position of a learner, a disciple. All of life is sacred. She was a simple first-century woman from a negligible village in a country overshadowed by the Roman Empire, yet the memory of Mary of Bethany has endured through two millennia. Mary was the sister of Martha, and her brother was Lazarus whom Jesus raised from the dead. Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. Jesus was moved by her tears! Don't be. What disappointment or heartache are you experiencing now? One of the major influences in forming our ideas about God is our relationship with our parents-- especially our fathers. As the months and years of his ministry continued, the friendship between Jesus and this family deepened. Martha as usual was helping to serve. She, of all people, had reason to believe his promise that he would rise from the dead. Think of your heavenly Father being moved by your tears, sharing your sorrow. Her... More. extremely good friends with Mary of Bethany, even allowing her the privilege of sitting at His feet which was usually only allowed for men students. She did what she could while he was alive. You don't have to wait till you get your daily tasks done to have a ministry. Log in, Automated page speed optimizations for fast site performance. Is it His will that we be abused and violated? ", Philip said, "Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.". Mary Ann Beavis has proposed in two articles that many of the earliest references to a Mary in non-canonical texts could actually be Mary of Bethany. Only a woman can model godly womanhood. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.". Jesus revealed to us for all time the character of the Father--His great heart of love for his children; his sensitive compassion; his accessibility; his hatred of sin, but his forgiveness of the sinner. The Gospels do not describe her physical appearance, nor do they reveal if she was a married woman. This was her original way of publicly declaring her total abandonment and commitment to Jesus Christ. Do you get upset because the person who team teaches with you is always late or unprepared? We women bring a unique contribution to the church and society in general. Martha served the food. Or you offer your home for a pot luck dinner, but getting everything ready really frays your nerves? But Jesus himself would not be with them physically much longer. Mary was focused, single-minded. When word came that Jesus was finally there, she quickly went to meet him and fell at his feet. The fragrance of the perfume filled the house. They were angry with Mary and expressed their displeasure in no uncertain terms. Leave her alone. So they made Him a supper there, and Martha was serving; but Lazarus was one of those reclining at the table with Him. Did He really intend for us to be on a little lower rung of the human ladder? John 12:1-11 says the woman was Mary, and that she poured the perfume over Jesus’s feet. Think of how many poor families could eat for a week on that. There are seasons in our lives when we are freer to do some things than others. However, today I'd like to talk about one very special woman and her unique relationship with the Lord. A whole year's wages just poured out for nothing! "Martha served, while Lazarus was one of those reclining at table with him. It pleases Him. She believed his words about his coming death and resurrection. These women were helping to support them out of their own means. What a waste! Mary of Bethany is a true woman of beauty we can all learn from. He said, “She did what she could.” Mary was the one who was spiritually in tune with Jesus. And rather than rebuking her, Jesus applauded her choice. During that week before his death, a man named Simon, a leper whom Jesus had healed, held a dinner in his honor. around Your sturdy ankles. Mary then took a pound of very costly perfume of pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped His feet with her hair; and the house was filled with the … For this reason I'd like us to study today the way Jesus treated women, because only there will we see what our heavenly Father really thinks about us. Only you can change my feelings." If your father was kind, attentive, loving and wise, it’s easy to transfer those qualities to your heavenly Father. Someone has said, “The most important thing about you is what you think about God”--a simple but profound concept. Martha had a sister, Mary, and a brother, Lazarus. God loves women. Her Promise The Old Testament Passover lamb was only a shadow of what was to come. Some of you have a full time job outside the home and another one at home. They reclined on couches, lying on their sides with their heads near the table, eating with one hand. He understood what she was saying by this extravagant deed. If you really knew me, you would know my Father as well. Mary of Bethany. He knew her heart. There's no question that the devaluation of mothering and homemaking has contributed to the terrible disintegration of the family which we are all witnessing today. But Jesus taught women spiritual truth, such as Martha and the Samaritan woman. All that he asks of each of us is that we do what we can. Wouldn't it make our service easier and more fruitful if we put first things first? It tells me that he knows our talents, our resources, our genetic heritage, our personality types, our families of origin, our physical stamina, our education, our marriages, our restrictions and limitations, our opportunities, our diverse kinds of suffering, our weaknesses and our strengths. Women supported the earthly ministry of Jesus from their private resources. This time she was there because she was disappointed and heartbroken. How does He feel? Because God has wired us like this, He gives us a responsibility that only we can do. Yes, I’d say these women were unconventional, to say the least. Lazarus was the one Jesus had raised from the dead. If God decorated the world with thousands of flowers in every shape, size and color, why would we think that he wants all of us to look and act alike? It was unheard of for women to travel with a rabbi. Among the “good deeds” listed in 1 Timothy 5:10 are “bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of the saints,” and “helping those in trouble.”. When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial. Mary Magdalene is twice mentioned in St. Matthew’s Gospel as being with “the other Mary” (Mt 27:61 and Mt 28:1) and “the other Mary” is very clearly identified as being “Mary the mother of James and Joseph” (Mt 26:56). The error is in what they leave out: women can have it all, but all at the same time! She didn't care what anyone thought. Let's determine with God's help that our influence will be godly. I don't have to be like anyone else and no one has to be like me to please the Lord. Each take a very different approach to their guest. like Mary of Bethany. Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived. Tradition and Scripture are not synonymous. We have a Savior who revealed to us the love and acceptance of our heavenly Father. But I am willing for you to change me. Jesus set the example for all time. The poor you will always have with you, and you can help them any time you want. "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. We have to know what we are able to do in conjunction with all our other responsibilities and keep our priorities in order. Our greatest influence has historically been in the home. Mary stepped outside of the Cultural expectations of the time by sitting at the feet of Jesus with the men. Jesus was a carpenter, others were fishermen. Mary of Bethany is an exemplar of a person who suffers shame and heartbreak, if the story of the raising of Lazarus, in which she and her sister Martha figure largely, is understood in a certain way. Luke reports that on one occasion when Jesus stopped at their home, Mary sat at His feet listening to Jesus while Martha was busy as We must allow God to change the distorted concepts we have of Him by looking at Jesus and realizing that in Him we have the only accurate picture of our heavenly Father. But we miss the better part--time spent with Him, listening to Him and worshiping Him. — Mary of Bethany in Luke’s gospel “Jesus at the home of Mary and Martha” by Harold Copping (1927) – Public domain. It was Mary who knew there was not much time left. It was Mary who anointed the Lord with ointment and wiped his feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was ill. She passed into eternity in Sept 2015 and is with our dear Jesus. Martha is serving. After this, Jesus traveled about from one town and village to another, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom of God. but especially, Lord. Conclusion: In Mary of Bethany we find an unwavering focus by how she listened to Jesus, gave Him her best, and in how she sought His approval in what she did. When he heard this, Jesus said, "This sickness will not end in death. And he accepted their support, which arose from hearts filled with gratitude and love. She has done a beautiful thing to me. Mary was taught how to behave properly and knew the customs of her people, but when it came to Jesus, she just didn’t care what anyone else thought of her behavior. 4:15 says that we have a high priest who is able to sympathize with our weaknesses, so we can come with confidence to the throne of grace to receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. You'll receive mercy, grace to endure, and healing for your pain. And tradition is particularly dangerous when it is mixed with Scripture. Then she did something very personal and intimate. The story of Mary and Martha is a Sunday school favourite that appeals to children everywhere. Our Father understands our nature and our emotions as women. She had her priorities in proper order. Mary came in quietly with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume. He won't scold us when we come to Him. Even so, when it was time to celebrate the Passover, Jesus returned to Jerusalem. 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